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Everything Happens for a Reason
Okay. So a lot has happened in my life to get me to where I am today. And a lot of people I know would say that they have many regrets that they’ve done, and all these things. Just hearing my kids giggle. I smile because they are actually the point to this, I am a strong believer in “everything happens for a reason.”
Even the absolute, terrible things that happen in our lives. Everything happens for a reason.
Now, I want you to understand that I was not always a strong woman. I was not always someone that spoke my truth and that really just came out and said how I felt. In fact, for a long time, I was very much, let’s just say muzzled.
I was in a situation, or I was in a marriage that we just wasn’t a good marriage. Very, very, very much emotionally abusive. Very, very, very much mentally abusive. Very, very much am I still healing from it? And I still actually work on it daily, and it’s something that I actually am able to help others through, because I’ve experienced it and because I’m able to recognize signs of it happening, what happened to me happening to others. So if I see it happening, I’m just, I don’t keep my mouth shut. I’m just like, “Hey, I just, it’s making me feel some sort of way. I just want you to know.”
I am a strong believer in you always being true to yourself. And I say this now after five years of being free, five years ago, my parents came and saved me and my boys from hell. We were, we were trapped in a place very, very far away from home. And my parents came and brought us home. We came home and I can honestly say that it was the biggest turning point in my life. And it was the change that I ultimately needed because I became me that day. I vowed that I would never allow another person control me the way that I was controlled. And I didn’t realize, and it’s funny, you don’t realize that you’re being controlled until you’re not being controlled anymore.
And when the person loses that power over you, it’s amazing what they will do to try and spin everything and what they do to your psyche to make you feel like they can turn others against you. And for a long time, I felt that way. I felt like he was going to talk to people and make them think whatever. And I finally got to the point where, you know, what, think what you want. I know my truth. I know who I am. I know what happened. And I just don’t care if you think that way about me, then you obviously don’t know me and or care. Truly, that was probably the best turning point of my life. So here’s my point because of that terrible, terrible thing, I got two of the most amazing children. And because of that terrible, terrible thing, I found out that I can be incredibly strong and I can do whatever I put my mind to.
I know for a fact that anybody can do it and it’s not, I’m not special. I’m not smarter than anybody else. And it’s not that I know more things than anybody else and whatever. I was just determined. That’s all there was to it. I wasn’t going to allow myself to quit because I had two little boys that needed me and they needed to see what it meant to succeed. And they needed to see what it meant to have somebody who loves them unconditionally and what it meant to fight for them. And you better fucking believe I fought tooth and nail for those kids. I proverbially fight for them. Like every day of my life, I do whatever I can to make sure that, you know, they’re provided for and they’re taken care of. And you know, I am building my business every day and I’m trying to help more women out there become stronger and become empowered in their businesses and grow their businesses and, you know, feel better about themselves and become stronger, amazing women.
I want more for everybody. And I want you to know that if you are going through something right now, I understand that right now, it may feel like the floor is being roped out from under you. And it very well may be okay. But ultimately there is a reason for it. And if you keep the mindset that something better is coming along and this just wasn’t meant to be, and this needs to happen. So that better thing can happen. It will, it will. And I don’t know how I know. I don’t know why it is that way, but it is. It just is everything that’s happened in my life. And I’ve had a lot of bad shit happen. I mean, okay, so mind you, I did this to myself. I mean, I’ve been through, I mean, I hurt myself. I was, you know, I I’ve, I’ve heard general live about this in my Facebook group and you can go back and see it, but I mean, it’s, it’s already known.
I mean, I tried to commit suicide, um, and I was in the hospital for two weeks over it. Um, but before then, I mean, I was in endless amounts of abusive relationships. I just, a lot of mental ups and downs. I was diagnosed bipolar. Rocky friendships. Like I never really had true friendships. I may have five true friends that I know that no matter what I can pick up the phone and they’re there, period. And that’s fine. That’s okay. I’m okay with this, this isn’t the, that’s not the depressing part. I’m really good with this. Um, I’m, I’m blessed that I have a family that I know I can turn to. No matter what, I mean, my parents came and rescued me. Like I know that not a lot of people have that. Like, I’m blessed. I’m truly, truly blessed. I know this. I know this. I have tried my entire life.
No, that’s a complete bullshit lie. That’s a bullshit lie. I started when everything happened with my ex husband, when the bullshit happened when my parents rescued me is when I started believing that everything happens for a reason. And please God, please, or universe, whatever, whatever you believe in, please, like there has to be something better. There has to be something better coming along for this to happen. There has to be a reason that this is happening to me right now because I know there’s something more for me there there’s so much more meant for me out there. I have so much to do, there’s bigger things out there for me. I know in my heart, there’s just so much I have to do to help people. And I can’t, I can’t just not, um, I was in a very low spot and, you know, I was right back to feeling terrible. I mean, you know, it was, it was, it was scary. I mean, it was, I was a strong believer in one and done with marriage. I thought he was it. I mean, he made me believe it. It was definitely, definitely, you know, uh, no one’s ever gonna love you situation, obviously proved him wrong. Um, but if you keep up the mentality of something better is coming over,
It has been proven time and time again, not just in my life. And I know it’s not just in my life, in my friends lives in my fiance’s life and my family’s life. Something better always comes along.
Something bad happens. It’s because something better is meant to happen…period. So that’s the moral of my madness for today. I hope that you guys have a great rest of your day or night or whenever you’re watching me. I hope this helped you and enlightened you. If you need to talk to me more, please don’t hesitate to schedule a call with me. I would love to chat with you more about this. It definitely helped me the moment I started shifting everything. I still have bad days. Everybody has bad days. I do know that it’s because something good is about to happen. So everybody have a wonderful day and I will talk to you again soon. Thanks.