Has anyone told you that you remind them of "the babe?" What babe? Oh, the babe with the power... of words! As an Online Clarity Business Coach this is something that has been brought up so much within my community and I had to talk about it. The words that we speak to ourselves and allow others to speak to us, shape our whole world. Words really are magical AF. So today, let's talk about how you can use them for the power of good!
The Power of Words Around You
I'm going to preface this with a TRIGGER WARNING because this can bring up a lot of emotion for some people. Especially if you've spent your life in an environment where other's have highlighted what you "can't" do or pointed out your "flaws." It can be quite the "mind fuck" and lead you to question if something really is wrong with YOU. But the truth is, most of the time when this is happening, it's the other person projecting their limiting beliefs on to you.
Unfortunately, if this person has been a consistent presence in your life and you haven't set boundaries with them, they know that you will accept it and will take advantage of your insecurities. The trick here is to take a step back and realize that these words or beliefs are THEIRS, not yours. You have the power to let them go instead of holding onto them. Start doing what you can to set boundaries, remove toxic people from your life, and create an environment that is conducive to your growth!
The Power of Words That Attract Unicorns
In the online space, there is a lot of "comparatinitus" that happens. Yes, I just made that up but it doesn't make it any less true. Basically, we spend so much time comparing ourselves to the content that we see others putting out there, that we start to forget our worth or how CAPABLE we are.
Maybe you're going into groups to look for job opps and see people who have similar services as you commenting and engaging. Here's the thing - while their services may be similar, no one's delivery is ever the same. Rather than comparing yourself to these people or what they might be able to do, focus on your awesome abilities
Remember what YOU bring to the table and recognize that the things we see from others on Social Media is their highlight reel! You don't have to live an "instagram-worthy" life. Don't be afraid to own your messy behind the scenes moments and focus on being authentic when creating posts or content that speak to your ideal client. After all, they are the ones you want to reach. You want to show them how you can help them to change their lives or their businesses, right? So stop worrying what everyone else might say or think. They aren't your Unicorns!
The Powers of Words to Hype Yourself Up
Did you know that wanting to "fit in," is part of our DNA? Early humans knew that being part of a larger group meant they were more protected and had a higher chance of survival. But, babe, we aren't hunter-gatherers anymore. I know you want to be "part of the pack," but if you're surrounded by people who don't make you feel comfortable or help you THRIVE... it's time to venture out on your own. That's when knowing your worth really comes into play.
If you're constantly talking down to yourself, then of course you're going to stay in those circles that no longer serve you. So, it's time to shift those words that are rattling around in your head. If you're ready to be your own hype man or woman, I've got just the thing to help. Find Your Magic by creating your very own affirmations to uncover your potential and see just how amazing you are. This free guide will help you to own your badassery and help you understand that you are STILL a Boss Bish, even while you are leaning, growing, and shifting!
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